Thursday, June 2, 2011

things are looking UP

Our Little Man is alomst 5 months old and full of smiles, slobber, grunts, and funny sounds. Last week . . . nope, no resolution officially at court, but a shift did happen.

Monday visitation is supervised by our agency's social worker. Birth mom had lots of questions about myself and hubby. She also stated that her mother said NO to raising the baby (again.) And Birth mom said she liked that LM was happy and clean with us and asked if we could adopt him if she cannot get him back!
Holy yippee bat man! I don't know who has been talking to her, but someone has and we could not be more thrilled! Last Friday due to county staffing issues I supervised the visit and she asked me the same thing :o). I just told her she need never worry - LM can stay with us forever.
No word on paternity results yet. The county social worker tells me she thinks the potential father only agreed to test because she threatened to come out to his house. AND he is married with children, so looks like he is trying to keep this possibility quiet for now. It is doubtful that he would want services.
Again I am told 6/6/11 is THE date for jurisdiction, hi ho, we'll see . . . (sigh) anyway. 


Do I Have to Be a D.I.N.K.? said...

I have been waiting for you to post a picture! He is just so cute!

Logical Libby said...

He is a darling boy. My fingers are crossed for you and him. said...

He is an adorable little man! What a turn of events!