tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8591878507107446203.post6208939626180437707..comments2013-03-20T10:39:34.419-07:00Comments on wanna bee: First weeks reflectionsWanna Beehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13326787187454444298noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8591878507107446203.post-27583431337013755892011-01-31T15:56:48.571-08:002011-01-31T15:56:48.571-08:00Those are some tough ideas to reconcile. It's ...Those are some tough ideas to reconcile. It's lovely that you are just being there for LM now while he needs you, and are open to continuing to be there for him for the rest of his life if he needs you, or to letting him go if he doesn't. Best of luck. You are a very brave woman.Sarahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02747382929049494704noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8591878507107446203.post-78005807147439772642011-01-27T23:37:46.373-08:002011-01-27T23:37:46.373-08:00What a tough position to be in... one that I fores...What a tough position to be in... one that I foresee myself being in as well in the not-too-distant future! What strength you have! Part of me wants to hope LMs family gets their crap together (& a bigger part of me hopes they don't so you can keep him!)<br /><br />I'll be following along...<br /><br />ICLW #131Rhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17989224842090130792noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8591878507107446203.post-5588194725342526722011-01-27T19:18:22.552-08:002011-01-27T19:18:22.552-08:00I think there is nothing easy about the formation ...I think there is nothing easy about the formation of any family. I think that we have to look at the love and hope to overcome the sadness and loss. <br /><br />And I LOVE the desk. LOVE it.Logical Libbyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00107961721466815295noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8591878507107446203.post-48609621961914288862011-01-27T18:47:36.522-08:002011-01-27T18:47:36.522-08:00That does sound like a hard situation that would c...That does sound like a hard situation that would cause so many conflicting emotions. Hang in there!<br /><br />ICLWBrownirishttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05968155365863127002noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8591878507107446203.post-66479441731893824872011-01-27T18:42:27.400-08:002011-01-27T18:42:27.400-08:00It must be so heart-wrenching to have that realiza...It must be so heart-wrenching to have that realization. You really made me see both sides of the issue. My heart bleeds for you falling in love with a baby you may not get to keep, and for his biological family who must be missing him so much.<br /><br />(ICLW #168)Hopehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05614983212919126632noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8591878507107446203.post-12648445456340276142011-01-27T06:37:25.153-08:002011-01-27T06:37:25.153-08:00That is the hardest part of fostering to adopt for...That is the hardest part of fostering to adopt for sure. You are so torn. We were picked for our daughter just before the TPR, as her foster mom was older and had decided it would be better for her to be adopted to a younger family.<br /><br />I am glad that things are going well with LM.Kellyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13199164907126413792noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8591878507107446203.post-91429461140783057382011-01-27T05:59:30.646-08:002011-01-27T05:59:30.646-08:00Well said. Enjoy your time with the little man. ...Well said. Enjoy your time with the little man. Are you allowed to post a photo?Do I Have to Be a D.I.N.K.?https://www.blogger.com/profile/13930605269034903186noreply@blogger.com